10 Meaningful Places to Scatter Cremated Ashes

​Deciding where to scatter the cremated ashes of a loved one is a deeply personal choice and can be a significant part of the grieving and healing process. Many families choose locations that were special to their loved one, or places that embody the essence of them. This is a list of ten meaningful places you might consider scattering your loved one's ashes.

1. A Local Park

A ​local park may hold special memories of family gatherings, picnics, or peaceful walks. We have a creek that runs through a park near my home in Kansas City. My wife and I walked there many times when she was pregnant with my daughter. Most recently, my daughter and I carved our initials into a tree down by the water. Perhaps you have similar memories with your loved one at a nearby park or tributary. Scattering ashes in a park where you enjoyed spending time together can be a comforting way to keep their memory alive in a familiar and meaningful place. Remember, it isn't about scattering all of the cremation ash at once. You may find scattering a small amount here or there is just as meaningful.

2. In a Coral Reef

​For those who loved the ocean and marine life, consider an underwater ceremony in a coral reef. Companies such as ​Eternal Reefs specialize in creating environmentally-safe underwater memorials that help support reef ecosystems, combining remembrance with conservation.

3. Ariel Scattering

Scattering ashes from a plane, or ariel scattering, can be a profound way to honor a loved one. The elevation symbolizes closeness to the heavens, and the panoramic views offer a serene and majestic final resting place. We recommend Cambridge Scatterings, an established scattering company since 1985. 

4. Their Own Backyard

There's no place like home. Scattering ashes in the garden or another favorite spot in the backyard feels personal, and close to home (literally). It’s a private option, especially suited for those who cherished their home life.

5. National Parks

​With breathtaking landscapes and protected nature, national parks are a dignified setting for scattering ashes. Be sure to check regulations, as each park may have specific guidelines or require permits for ash scattering. You can learn more about applying for a scattering permit on the National Park Service website.

6. At Sea

Scattering cremation ash at sea is a poignant way to say a final goodbye. This option allows families to release the ashes into the open waters, symbolizing a return to nature and the eternal flow of life. You can even personalize the ceremony with readings, prayers, songs, or a moment of silence. As the ashes disperse in the water, they embark on an everlasting journey, providing a sense of peace and continuity for those left behind. For this option, we recommend Sea Services, a trusted burial at sea company for over 25 years.

7. Scenic Overlooks

Many people find comfort in releasing ashes from a scenic overlook, where the beauty of the landscape spreads out below. This can be particularly moving at sunrise or sunset, adding to the ceremony's emotional and visual impact. Keep in mind the direction of the wind when scattering. Always scatter with the wind and position yourself accordingly.

8. Via Fireworks

Turning ashes into fireworks is a dramatic and celebratory way to say goodbye, literally turning grief into light and color. This can be a joyous and public tribute, especially suitable for honoring those who lived a vibrant, colorful life. If your loved one wanted to go out with a bang, this is the option for you. For this, we recommend a family run business called Heavenly Stars Fireworks, a trusted fireworks scattering company since 1994.

9. Arts and Music Festival

​For music lovers, consider scattering ashes at a music festival or concert venue that they loved. This is a great way to honor their passion for music, surrounded by the energy of live performances and fellow music fans.

10. Space!

Yes, this is real. If your loved one had a passion for astronomy, science fiction, or simply gazed up at the stars in awe, sending their ashes into space can fulfill a lifelong dream of theirs. The vastness of space is peaceful, and infinite. The idea of being unbound by Earth and free in the expanse of space can be a comforting and poetic idea. For this we recommend a company called Celestis, offering Memorial Spaceflights since 1994.

Conclusion

​Choosing an unconventional location for scattering ashes can reflect the unique spirit and passions of the deceased, turning remembrance into an extraordinary, personal celebration of life. Always be sure to check local laws and regulations when scattering cremated ashes. And remember to always, always, always, scatter upwind.